10 Signs That It’s Moving Too Fast
Sometimes you’re so into a new relationship that you just want to fast track it. But rushing into it usually isn’t a good thing. Here are 10 signs that it’s moving too fast:
- Too much commitment too soon. Does one of you want to commit more than the other? Do they want you to make a bigger commitment than you’re really ready for? Asking too much from the relationship when it doesn’t feel right yet means that it’s moving too fast.
- Meeting the family too soon. Are they trying to get you to have dinner with their parents after the first date? Are you rushing to bring them home to your family right away? Meeting the parents is something that you should do after you’ve been together a while and know that you really like each other. Getting families involved right off the bat is a sign that things are going too quickly.
- Talking about the future. It’s ok to have casual discussions about the future, but if they are planning your wedding and picking out names for your future children it’s probably going too fast.
- Acting like an old married couple. New couples should be enjoying the honeymoon phase and having fun. If you’re staying in night after night and acting like an old married couple then you are trying to take things too fast. Don’t be in such a hurry to settle down.